Yes I know that life sends you curve balls and that sometimes things are out of your control but keeping your privacy is a must. (Yes, I know that blogging is inverse to maintaining privacy!) I am talking about things that you should only entrust to your partner: confidential information, memories of childhood, and other types of personal information, no matter the medium. I am a girl that likes borders and the sheer mention of crossing them makes me incredibly uneasy. I like to leave/give my attention to those that deserve it and share parts of me with people that I think are worth it.
Now considering that you have just met a female, and only engaged in 10mins of conversation, what gives you the impulse to send her a picture of you d***. I get it, you might somehow interpret that that is what I am looking for, you know, when you are thinking about how “good” I sound but if I don’t request your item, don’t provide it. Things like that have their place, you are not a pornostar, a stripper, or male escort, and even then you have to pay to see. If men (or women) don’t value themselves enough to keep certain things reserved, then where is the self-respect.
I can handle the receiving a picture message that I am not prepared for but if you were so free to send it to me I have to question the limits you set for yourself. What are your standards? What are your borders? I am curious, but I can still do without the answer. Just like Keri Hilson said “You turnin’ me off!”